Extended family gathering at beach sharing laughter and embraces by the ocean.

 

What should we wear?


There is no right way to style your family for photos. Ultimately you want to wear whatever makes you feel beautiful! If you feel confident in your outfit, then that will shine through and I promise you'll look great.


That being said, here are a few tips if you're looking for some guidance:

 

Candid overhead shot of family members lying on blanket sharing intimate moment outdoors.
Intimate family moment captured outdoors with warm sunlight and genuine expressions.

 

Coordinate, but don't match


Everyone wearing the same jeans and white t-shirt for their photos is one '90's trend that hasn't come back. You want your outfits to work together without all being exactly the same.

 

Family enjoying autumn scenery together in garden with fallen leaves.

 

Earthy colors, not neons


Some people look amazing in bright neon colors. The only problem is that neons and bright, bold primary colors can leave a color cast on your skin - which isn't ideal for your photos. Earthy tones (rust, ocher, mauve, burgundy, olive, cream, etc) photograph beautifully in a natural environment, as do pastels in the spring time. Consider balancing out bolder colors with softer neutrals; for example, one family member wears a solid tan, grey, or cream color, while another wears a bold burgundy and the third wears a pattern that pulls from the burgundy and brings in some yellow ocher. The possibilities are endless!

 

A family group embraces while standing together in a grassy field with autumn trees in the background.
A family walks together on a sunlit wooded path wearing casual clothing.

 

Patterns and textures


To add some visual interest to your photos, include a mixture of solids and patterns. Smaller patterns work best, as large/loud patterns can sometimes distract from your beautiful faces. Considering a variety of textures in your clothing is another way to add depth and personality. In fact, if you're drawn to a limited color palette for your family of just two colors, making sure to incorporate different textures or details such as ruffling, bows, lace, embroidery, cashmere, corduroy, smocking, etc. will add interest to your outfits while keeping them cohesive. And if you're drawn to lots of pattern and color, make sure you have at least one solid to anchor them, and keep the patterns small.

 

A family enjoys an intimate outdoor moment together in golden autumn sunlight.
A tender moment captured between a parent and child sitting on a stone wall in a park setting.

 

Fabrics that move with you


Choose clothes that let you move around and feel great about yourself. If you're worried about your shirt riding up or your dress shifting awkwardly, then it will be harder to relax and focus on your family. Same thing for your children - if you squeeze them into stiff formal wear that they hate, their misery will show. It's much better to find something they feel comfortable in (and that works with your color scheme).


Pro tip - For babies and young kids who wear dresses, make sure they're also wearing bloomers or bike shorts to cover up diapers and undergarments when they're sitting or being tossed upside down.

 

A creative family portrait taken through a circular frame in a garden setting.

 

Shoes!


Wait, don't forget about your shoes! There is such a range of shoe styles out there that I won't even begin to try to tell you what to wear. But I will remind you to make note of your kid's shoes and avoid the everyday dirty sneakers with neon laces/logos/lights. A simple brown shoe or boot is a popular alternative for a lot of boys, and girls can get away with just about any sandal/shoe/boot that isn't their everyday sneakers. Whatever anyone wears, just make sure you can all comfortably walk or run around in it. And if barefoot is more your style, then toss those shoes to the side and let's start the fun!

 

Three children pose together on a gravel path wearing fall-colored clothing.

 

Still don't know where to start?


If you're feeling overwhelmed, here's your plan: Start with your own outfit. Pick something you feel amazing in. Treat yourself to something new if you want! Then use your outfit as the starting point to plan for your partner and kids. Include one solid for every two patterns. Avoid neon colors, bright primary colors, logos and words. Make sure everyone feels comfortable in their clothes, and I promise it will all come together. And if you have a session coming up and would like some help, please send me a note and I'll happily help figure out a plan.

 

Two friends share laughter while sitting on a blanket in a field with tall grasses.